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January 19 A new year.. a new home We have moved! Our new site is http://jpsunda.wordpress.com/ Please do update your bookmarks. Look forward to seeing you there! January 11 Look Mom, No Eggshells! I once helped my mom make a cheesecake while I was home on break during college. It was the first cheesecake that I ever helped with, to my recollection, and I was nervous but proud to be making something so "difficult." My mom used her food processor to mix the cheesecake filling,which I thought was a very good idea. The only problem was that I was not then, nor am I now, very good at breaking eggs open. I often end up smashing the egg more than cracking it, and then I have to stick my finger into the "crack" (or smash) and pull the eggshell apart. This may or may not result in eggshell falling into my batter or dough.. it just depends what kind of mood I'm in. So anyway, on my first cheesecake-making day I was a little nervous about the eggs because I had to break one at a time, and then send it down through the chute on top of the food processor. My mom encouraged me to tap the egg right on the chute to crack it, and then drop the egg in. It went well for the first two eggs, but on the third egg, my fingers shook a little and that caused the WHOLE egg, shell included, to drop down into the food processor. This may have been a salvageable mission, had the food processor not been running! We tediously and painstakingly tried to collect all of the pieces of eggshell from the filling, but worried that there were more than our probing fingers could find. We held our breath as it baked, and sighed happily at its beauty after it cooled. And then it came time to slice it, and eat it... and I promise you... each and every bit crunched. Each and Every bite. I couldn't bring myself to eat cheesecake, especially plain cheesecake, for many years. So, today is my friend Lori's birthday-- HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Lori!!-- and I decided that I wanted to make her a cheesecake to top off our dinner last night. I used that very same tried and true recipe from years ago, and stayed far, far away from my food processor. (It sure took a long time to get it nice and smooth with a hand mixer!!) This cheesecake looked exactly the same as the last one I made, but thankfully, it was satisfyingly un-crunchy! So, JP and I thank you, Lori, for having a birthday and restoring our faith in our cheesecake baking and eating skills. Have a birthday any time you'd like- we'll gladly eat cheesecake with you. And, look Mom, no eggshells! January 04 Split personality Its finally thawing out today. I do not like temperatures that are flirting with single-digits (Fahrenheit). 2008... almost 12 years since I first entered the US. Having lived in the US, I have been very aware of my "split personality." This is definitely not a new concept to those who know me or those who have spent a significant time overseas, away from their home. I termed this cultural schizophrenia and have been quite self aware when it comes to symptoms manifesting themselves. For example, when I am in the US, I can drive on the right-hand side of the road, speak with a mid-west American accent, negotiate my way though the firm hand-shake and eye-contact rule, eat easily with a knife and fork, etc. When I travel to India, the Indian-persona takes over. I am able to speak English like a South-Indian. My Indian languages lose their rust almost immediately, I can drive my motorcycle on the streets of Bangalore, and I even begin to dream in different languages. I become acutely aware of this switch when my wires get crossed. This happens when I watch an Indian movie in the US, or speak to an American in India, etc etc. I have always been fascinated by this unique phenomenon but I am even more intrigued now. In a little over a month, I will travel again. This time, however, my destination is not India (at least not initially). I travel to the islands of SE Asia, to the Philippines. I am going to be attending a conference there for a week before making a stop in India on my way back to the US. What I am intrigued about most, besides the joys of entering a new culture, is finding out which part of my split personality will make an appearance.
Will it be the "American" JP or the "Indian" JP? I am excited to find out. My prediction is that they will both make an appearance... at varied times. Lots to journal about as I wonder! January 01 Cotton Balls are Very QuietHappy New Year, one and all!! I was just remembering last night as we watched the ball drop, that when I was a kid I always used to have a wild sensation inside me when I was waiting for the new year to begin. It was like I wanted to hold my breath and let it out at the same time. I didn't want to let go of the previous year, but I couldn't wait for the new one. It made me hyper and jumpy. Well, I hope that you all have entered into the new year with eager, expectant looks on your faces, or a hopeful smile, or a giggle in your pocket. You never know what's coming around the bend-- look for it! Thankfully, my new year has started in the best possible way for me... quietly. I've had a bit too much rushing lately, and I'm talking long before the Christmas rush. I feel like I've been on the go with no end in sight since about 2005. I needed to start this year quietly, with the snow gathering in poofy cotton balls on the trees outside, and with a lazy frozen pizza for lunch that smell like popcorn, and tasted like simplicity. JP and I took a long, long walk in the snow this morning because we're dog sitting for a dog who could walk for days. It sure was a nice walk. And now there's not much of a plan. Thank goodness for a day to just be quiet. I got swept up by a whirling-dervish this past fall, and didn't get dropped back down until... well, until now. Whirling-dervishes are pretty exciting to be a part of, but they're also exhausting and leave no head space for writing blogs. JP tried his best to be the heavy and force me to sit down and share my thoughts on life with you, but he's a little too sensitive and nice to be very effective at that. He tried whining, whimpering, crying, and sulking. He tried guilt. He tried to leave me alone. But, the very best attempt to get me to write was his desperate bribe. The day after Thanksgiving, JP promised that if I wrote one blog entry per week, for one year, he would get me my very own mini-wiener dog!! Tempting... We'll just see if it works. I'm typically not one to fall for bribes. However, I did clarify to see if he meant 52 blog entries, or one actual entry each week. He was nice. He said 52 entries total. So, Happy New Year! Here's to quiet days, and wiener dogs. p.s. Here are some pics of recent days.. - Birds at our feeder! (and notice our beautiful fence in the background!!) - A few from Betsy's 30th Bday Dinner Party, with chocolate fondue - Amy, Dad, and JP at home for Christmas November 30 Wintry blastsHello strangers...:) I know it has been a while since our last update. Maybe the longest break between two updates ever...but we are back on this virtual journal once again pledging that a break of this sort is not imminent again. We are definitely not part of this writers' strike that seems to have handicapped most TV shows. So, while I wouldn't hold my breath if I was you, I know from a pretty reliable source that we have an incentive to keep this blog up. As you keep reading and coming back that sinister plan will slowly unfold.
I (JP) have been traveling all over the place. I got back from a 10 day trip to India last Monday and then left on Wednesday to go up north to Katy's parents' place for thanksgiving. It was the sort of break I desperately needed. We got back on Saturday and after a week of catching up at work, I am off again to Iowa this weekend. I'll be gone till Monday. Keep me in your prayers as the weather is supposed to get nasty...Arctic nasty. Lots of ice and snow do not bode well for an Indian driver. Hopefully the weather doom-sayers turn out to be nothing more than false prophets this time.
I hope you are well... and warm wherever you are today. Keep checking back... lots going on in the Sundararajan household that you may not want to miss out on!;) October 31 Updates!:)Ok... I feel like every time there is a long break between updates, I have to apologize and re-start again. Deja vu? I think herein lies one of the more pragmatic lessons in life...that when things do not go like clockwork and you have kind of slipped out of a routine, there really is no need to start all over, but to pick it up and keep chipping away! Maybe it sounds like a copout or even an excuse but I am going to keep chipping away. Thank you for your faithfulness in checking up on us.
Katy and I have had a very mixed month. Lots of wonderful joys and mixed with it were some hard days too. Some of you might know what happened, others of you can ask or email me about it. My parents left yesterday for India. They should be arriving in a few hours. It was strange to see them off because I leave for India next week! We had a great time with them here. It is always so much better to show your life than explain it over a cup of coffee in India. I was glad that they could see our new home, sleep in the guest bedroom, eat a bagel, pick apples (twice), shop at the new Menards, get their blood pressure checked at WalMart, try new pancakes at IHOP, check our new diners in Holland, get to know what Chihuahuas are, meet people we love, deepen relationships with people who love them, spend time with their family here in the US... lots of great memories.
Life should hurry back into a routine for Katy and me... at least for a couple of days. I am leading a team of 8 for a couple of weeks. We leave on Monday (the 5th) and I come back to the US on the evening of the 19th. Please do continue to keep us in your prayers. This fantastical life that we lead continues to amaze us!
October 03 Sunny October DaysKaty's taking a sabbatical of sorts from blog-writing... well not really a sabbatical but until her calendar frees up some time for her to use the computer at home, it will be yours truly filling in!:)
My parents got in safely on Sunday night. They arrived at 11:30 PM on September 30 and thus spent 30 minutes on my birthday. Now, this may not seem like that big a deal to some but the last time that I spent my birthday with my family was over 12 years ago in 1995 (my senior year of high school). It really was a special treat.
This week has been relatively a quiet week for them, which is really how I planned it. My parents could use a break even if it drives them crazy! :) Last night, we had some yummy Indian food and then we went shoe shopping for my mom. She needed some "closed-toe" shoes to help combat the chilly October, even if this week is pretty balmy. Tomorrow is my mom's birthday. As a family, birthdays were really the one thing we celebrated together. I think, again, that its such a blessing to have her here for her special day. Its been a good week so far.
I head out to Iowa tomorrow for a couple of days. I have to speak at my old college on Friday. For some reason, I have been a little worked up about this but I think it makes sense. No matter how many times or how many places you speak... it always tugs a little differently when you are back at your old marching ground. I'll let you know how it goes. My hope is to share about what we do at ASM but also to try and challenge a couple of students to head to India for a technical project next summer. There is a lot of interest and buzz around it, so it should be fun. I also get to speak at a couple of classes and meet students (along with other good friends).
Katy and I are in the process of putting up a fence soon! It will definitely add a nice asthetic touch to our home! I just glanced at my window and realized that its such a beautiful October day. I cannot believe the many ways in which we are blessed! :) Hope you are doing well today...wherever you are! September 26 P.S.My parents called about an hour ago. They got their visas and will be here on Sunday! Thank you for your prayers!! September 25 Looking forward to ...There is a big weekend coming up for us. As Katy and I enjoy this warm September we are gearing up for Sunday. Yes, it is JP's birthday but an even bigger deal is that at approximately 11:30 PM, we expect to be at the GR airport to pick up my (JP's) parents. As I type this, they are en route to the American Embassy in the city of Chennai. They have an appointment for their visa tomorrow morning (Indian standard time). Please do keep that in your prayers. We are looking forward to having my parents spend some time relaxing and enjoying quality fellowship with their family and friends here. They are really excited to be coming here. If you would like to see them or spend time with them, please do shoot us an email!
I have been out speaking a lot. I preached on Sunday, and next week, I head to my alma mater to speak in their chapel on homecoming weekend. Its exciting for me to be able to do that. Northwestern College and I are trying to form a partnership that will enable students to go with me to India to help on some technical projects. Its a whole new way of organizing trips to India for us...quite exciting.
For those of you who don't know yet... India won the world cup in 20-20 cricket. It is a new and exciting format of cricket that is catching fire around the world. Essentially its a shortened game that is adrenalin-laced. Big hits... colorful characters...Fun stuff! I am attaching a clip of one of the rarest feats seen in cricket... a batsman scored 6 sixers (homeruns) in 6 pitches. This was the first time it was done in this format and against a top team in the world. If you have a good connection and some time, you should check it out!
Hope you are all well wherever you are today! September 10 PicturesKaty's final three rolls came back! We uploaded some more pictures from our India trip.. Enjoy! September 08 The officeMy favorite TV show right now is really not a surprise to those who know me! It is on Thursday nights and its called "The Office." If you haven't seen it or heard of it, you really should check out an episode sometime. Anyway...every year, Katy and her colleagues do something interesting for the first day of chapel...and this year it was time to parody "The Office." So, I am including a copy of that video... the quality isn't the greatest but I thought it was pretty creative.. hope you like it!:) August 22 Ginger snap!Ok... Katy and I have a resolution to try and make Indian food once a week. It was a little bit of a challenge at first because Holland isn't necessarily the spice capital of the world. However, with persistence, we have been collecting spices...some of them come from our repeated visits to India, we buy some online, and we can even buy some in Holland. However, that isn't the only challenge, cooking Indian food requires different tools, different utensils, and wide open windows! We have also, with dogged determinedness, collected the tools of the trade. Our kitchen is now "stocked" (relatively) with enough items to have an Indian meal when the mood hits. Our weekly foray into Indian cuisine took a hit last week when we were planning on making vadas (a deep fried appetizer) and coconut chutney. Now, vadas are my specialty...big move considering how little I know about cooking. Our (mis)adventures with the chutney have been well documented. Last week, we finally had everything in place for a good snack when I stopped by the grocery store to pick up one little item for the chutney... ginger! Now, walking around the vegetable aisle with a basket strapped around an elbow can be entertaining only for so long. I could not find the ginger ANYWHERE. I finally stopped one of the "runner" and asked him where I could find the ginger. He told me that there was a recall a few days back and they were out of ginger and not expecting them back anytime soon! My Indian-ness honestly couldn't believe it...seriously... how can you cook Indian food without ginger?! Fortunately we had some in a jar at home and were able to manage. It was still a little weird... and yesterday, I was back looking for more ginger... and this worker that I finally asked looked at me like I had 2 heads when I said I wanted some ginger! They are still OUT... anybody know where I can find ginger in Holland? How come I didn't hear of this "ginger ban"? Maybe it happened when I was in India? Hmm....strange... Speaking of being unaware...I got to meet some lovely ladies from the Red Hat Society yesterday. I just don't get how I could have lived in the US for as long as I have and not seen them around! Of course, now that I have seen them, I will most definitely see them all over the place... funny how life works huh?:) Hope you are enjoying a wonderful day... August 07 Captain Bluetooth and the Cardamom Princess(I lost the entire blog I had typed up...so this is take 2) Katy and I are back in the U.S.A. Our flight back was pretty uneventful which is really how all flights need to be. We got in late Thursday night and we had just enough time to make sure our house was "functional" again before we crashed. I love travelling westward because you gain time back. I also think that it works well to arrive around 9 PM because all you can do at that time is make your bed and then go to sleep! You might have the "wake up at 2 AM feeling hungry" feeling but for the most part this is a lot easier than travelling eastward to India. You usually arrive there in the wee hours of the morning and you have to fight to stay awake all day. For a lot of people, the sensory overload that is India is usually the perfect recipe to staying awake. In any case, we got to bed.
Katy and I really did not have the chance to ease into life here. On friday, I had to participate in a rehearsal and dinner for a couple that is special to us. On Saturday, I had to perform a wedding (almost all of it except the "pronouncement"). It was quite an honor and privilege. Teresa, one of my youth group treasures, married Dan, a techie that is so dear to my heart. The wedding was beautiful, the bride resplendant, and the groom smooth. We had a lot of fun visiting with people we hadn't seen in a long time. It was also fun to see people we do see on occassion together under one roof.
So, it is now Tuesday morning and the pile around me on my desk seems to keep growing. I have a lot of catching up to do but I am also going through some of the photos and videos that were shot this summer in India. It got me thinking about how our summer really went. Katy and I went through a big learning curve. I think every time we lead teams to India, we grow in experience and we have new chapters that we are constantly learning. Our trip this summer was no different. We learned so much. A lot of people come to India, and their experiences are quite life-changing on different levels. However, I have noticed the tendency to compartmentalize the entire experience into "You won't believe what I ate" or "I'm so thankful for all the stuff I have" or "Our group was amazing!" I was pleasantly surprised when I talked to some people on this group who actually got it. India was not some strange land they were entering as passive observers. They wanted to be active participants. These are the people who wanted to hear stories. They wanted to appreciate India for what it was. These people do not idealize India and neither do they villify it. And some even go the extra mile to observe their own country and culture through the lens of India. I have always said and believed that I learned so much more about India after having left it.
There is a busy fall looming for us. I have another trip to India scheduled in November. This will be with yet another group. Should be good. Also, we hope that my parents can come and spend some time with us during the month of October. As far as my American parents go, its their anniversary today...so Happy Anniversary mom and dad!:)
I am adding some photos from the weekend. I apologize for the poor resolution on some of them. Hope you are all having a beautiful day! July 30 India for twoJP and I have been blessed this summer by the opportunity to share India with groups of people. It is one of the things we love most, actually. It came as a pleasant surprise, then, or maybe a reminder these last two days that India is nice, and slow, and sweet just on our own too. Some high lites, for those who are curious: 1. On Sunday afternoon, I read a novel on the stone bench in the courtyard (for several hours!) and the dogs came and sat on either side of me. I'm really on the band wagon to get own our dog again. 2. (re-)Learning how to make fresh coconut chutney from JP's mom, and then learning how to make JP's favorite childhood snack from JP's dad. Ah, how I love to spend time in the kitchen! (On Saturday afternoon I also made banana bread from some really cute, little, overripe bananas.) 3. Spending time in the studio with Williams this morning, making a scripture recording. While I wasn't able to participate in a recording that will go out into the field, and bless tribal India, I did get to record myself reading the sermon on the mount, which will hopefully assist me with a memorization project. I learned a lot about the scripture recording process during those few hours. 4. At long last, going to a jewelery store, where JP and his parents helped me pick out a gold chain, which is the truest symbol of a married Indian woman. Now, I shall no longer have to defend my naked neck when traversing India. I've always felt married, don't get me wrong, but in India, this chain will make me really married. sweet. It is hard to believe how quickly our India time has passed. We're not quite ready to leave, though really, I doubt we're ever ready to go. I am looking forward to my bed. More than that, I'm looking forward to all of you, near ones and dear ones, that I've missed so much this summer. But, for those of you who know me well, you know I hate goodbyes, and so I'm going to spend my next two days soaking up India like I don't have to leave. July 28 Road TripsOur second group left early this morning. We had to do two trips to the airport. Our airport runs are not typical. My parents, my brother and anybody else at home will always insist that they come to the airport to bid goodbye to people. This is so very special for my family but also to the people who are leaving. So, needless to say, our two trips to the airport (one at 1 AM and one at 4 AM) cut our night into little segments. So we took naps all night but it was definitely worth it, plus being a Saturday today, we were able to sleep in (a luxury that we don't always have in India during our trips). The second group that was here had a completely different sort of an experience tailored for them. We organized the entire trip around a road trip down to the southern most tip of India. Our trip involved day trains, night trains, buses, autos and cabs of various sizes. While the biggest miracle was that nobody got sick, we did have our share of adventures. I wont elaborate too much on them but I can list a choice few. It was quite the trip!:) * Day trip to Chennai where Paul got to do some construction work in a railway station somewhere on the outskirts of the city (while the train waited for the signal to change) * Visit to the burial site of St. Thomas * Spending a day in the French city of Pondicherry * A walking tour of the Meenakshi temple in Madurai * Visiting my village in south Tamil Nadu * A tour of a fireworks factory that is owned by a friend (we got a personal tour of a place that is highly "secretive" in nature) * A fireworks display * Lunch at various little places * Having our bus tire literally explode on us (our driver did really well to save the bus from flipping) * A short trip up to see a sea of people at the waterfalls in Courtallam * The gorgeous drive down to the tip of India So many more things to say... but I'll stop here. We will be adding more pictures soon. I cannot believe that in a few days, we will be heading back to the US. Lots of good things to look forward to there as well but for now, I am still enjoying breathing in this air and soaking in the Indian monsoon. July 17 The early monsoonIt has been quite pleasant in Bangalore. There is always a cool breeze in the air, rain falls intermittently throughout the day, and the sun makes a cameo to just let you know that you are in India. I knew, organizing these two trips, that we would be flirting with the rains but even I have been quite thrilled with the way the weather has cooperated. James and I spent almost all of Sunday night waiting for our two teams to arrive. It was a long wait and I felt like I shared in the jet lag yesterday afternoon. Thankfully, after a good night's rest we are back on track. We have had a good couple of days here in Bangalore. We will do a couple of road trips this week before we head out on a seriously long jaunt down to the tip of India where the Bay of Bengal, the Arabian Sea and the Indian Ocean meet. Everybody is in good spirits and I am excited for them! There have been plenty of highlights already but one of the lowlights happened to me yesterday at the park where some abominable bird pooped on my head. Fortunately, it wasn't an ostrich. We are taking more pictures. Katy has gotten her SLR camera out and we got a great deal at a local photography place where they develop your pictures, provide you a photo album, a new roll of film, batteries, a CD with your pictures on it, AND they will put your favorite photograph from that roll on a coffee mug... all of $10! :) Talk about a bargain! All is well in Bangalore otherwise. July 14 Big Indian Wedding AdventuresLast night our friends Shashi and Maria got married. They had planned their wedding so JP and I would be able to attend, and so we were especially looking forward to the celebration. The wedding itself was just lovely, the reception to follow was sweet, and the food was fantastic. The bride and groom were beautiful and charming, respectfully, and I appreciated their smiling faces throughout the evening. In addition, it was a memory filled night because the reception was held in the same hall that JP's family used for our reception two and a half years ago. Now, having mentioned in all sincerity the beauty of the evening, I must tell you -with a few giggles and guffaws- the manner in which we traveled to and from the wedding. You see, no matter the amount of planning and preparation, getting around town in India is simply put... an adventure. The groom and his parents, along with the pastor, came over to JP's home before the wedding. I think this was for the purpose of pictures, prayer. Time passed quickly and soon the pastor, groom, and parents were half an hour behind schedule and late getting to the church. Transportation scheming suddenly went into hyper-drive. Due to the large group needing to be transported, we were all to go over to the church in two shifts, with the wedding party naturally heading over first. I was assigned a seat in the Gypsy (vehicle which seats 5 including the driver, and 6 if someone sits in the back-end/trunk area). When JP's friend Raja returned with the Gypsy, I climbed nicely into the back seat with JP's mom and aunt, and JP's cousin climbed in the trunk. Before JP's dad had the chance to get into the other front seat, Raja mentioned that the Gyspy was sounding funny. We all raised an ear in alarm because it had already died on us the night before we were supposed to take the Hope group to the airport. After several attempts at starting the Gyspy with no luck, it was time to push. While JP's mom, aunt, and I sat primly wearing our saris in the backseat, the guys began to push the car in an attempt to pop the clutch. If only you could have seen JP, Raja, Thomas, and Chandran huffing and puffing, pushing the Gypsy in their wedding suits down the street toward the intersection... and then pushing it back toward the house from the intersection, and then back toward the intersection, and then finally, when it was obvious that the Gypsy was not going to start, back to the house and through the gate. At this point transportation scheming began again in earnest. We all ended up going by bike. Hahaha... This means your must now picture all of us in our wedding gear, riding in caravan to the church, via motorcycles. This is not uncommon in India by any means, but even we had the giggles thinking about the order of events. (And, for you Americans, you must now admire me because it means I rode side-saddle behind JP, wearing a sari and smiling all the while.) As I mentioned, the ceremony went on just fine. However, because it poured rain during the service, we had to re-organize our transportation once again. I was assigned to ride with a family from JP's church, as were most of the ladies who had arrive on the back of a bike earlier. It was good that I went in the car, however, because it opened up a spot for the groom to ride behind JP!!! Hilarious! Everyone made it to the reception in timely fashion, and enjoyed themselves greatly. And then, you know what it coming by now, it was time to figure out how to get home. Besides JP and I, everyone rode different bikes with different partners than they had the first time. Why? Well just because it was easier that way. Duh. A safe and lovely transport was had by all, and the Big Indian Wedding was simply the best. Pictures Below: 1. JP with Shashi, the groom 2. our Indian family 3. Bride and groom seated on the throne during reception 4. Enjoying the dinner 5. man making dosas for the wedding guests to eat July 12 A Hometown ExperienceThe first day that our Hope College group was in Bangalore, JP's mom and I took the girls shopping for Indian clothes. As the girls were finishing with the purchase and tailoring details for their first outfits, I realized I hadn't taken the time to pick anything out for myself. I made a quick choice, and the material vendor shuffled me off to the tailor he uses. I was so happy when they took me to the "Lovely Tailor Shop" because it is the place that JP's mom has used for years. I was even happier when the owner of the shop, while taking my measurements, asked me if I had been to the shop before. I had been remembered!! (Admittedly, it is probably somewhat easy to remember a white girl in India from year to year, but still-- he did remember me.) It made me feel a bit like Bangalore was my hometown too, and like I was no longer just JP's guest.
At Voorhees College in Vellore, which was part 2 of our Hope trip, the girls and I received beautiful saris from the Principal and professors at the college. Saris are wonderfully one-size-fits-all clothing items, with the exception of the blouse piece, which needs to be stitched seperately. Back in Bangalore, the girls and I made a second trip to the Lovely Tailor Shop, and for the first time it was my full responsibility to communicate the details of our blouse stitching needs, as well as our urgency to receive the blouses back within 24 hours because the girls were leaving India very soon. The Lovely Tailor is a very busy place, and in the past we've had trouble with them not getting our garments ready in time. I've learned that it is important to be recognized as a regular customer, for your clothes will then be respectfully completed by the promised time. I was nervous that I would do a poor job communicating our needs, or that they would simply not consider my request important enough to finish in time. BUT, happily, when I returned the next evening to pick up the saris and blouses, the owner saw me coming down the alley, and I heard him call out to the man who had stitched our blouses, alerting him that I had come. Everything was ready, and later on JP's mom told me that I was beginning to be recognized and treated as a regular customer.
On their last evening in India, our girls tried to remember how to tie saris, which is a pretty challenging experience for a typically jean-clad American girl. Finally, with some help from JP's mom and aunt, they got their new saris tied long enough to take some fun pictures. They looked quite stunning!
While the girls traipsed around in their saris, I was smiling at them and their antics. I was also smiling a little on the inside because I was thinking about how Bangalore is becoming my own special kind of hometown place, where people know me. Now, if I can just learn to tie my own sari, I might begin to feel a bit more like an Indian wife.
keep checking for new photos soon...
we love you all. July 06 Samosas and the Bay of BengalOur group has now moved on from Vellore to the coastal city of Chennai. It still feels weird for me to call it Chennai... part of me will always call it Madras. We have had more adventures since our last stop. I got to take the group to meet my dear friend Krishna in his village for the 4th of July. Krishna has a rice mill that he runs with his family. We got to spend some time with them and the students had the opportunity to talk to him about his faith (Hinduism) and interact with other kids in the village. Plus, it was the 4th of July, so we bought fireworks that we set off in the rice mill (not "inside" of course!). One of my stories for this week was the story of Ravi. When our group was at Vellore, we have the opportunity to spend some time on a college campus. We got to interact with students, professors, etc. The last day we were there, we met Ravi. He was a little kid, 13 years of age who sold Samosas (a crispy Indian snack). He brought it to the campus and sold them for 1 rupee each. He seemed to like our group and we did enjoy his samosas so we started to talk. Our immediate question was..."why aren't you in school?" and his response was quite sad. He said he was in 8th grade but he had to sell the samosas for a couple of days because his mother was sick and he wanted to make some money so he can take her to the hospital. I knew there was something special with this kid when I bought 2 samosas and gave him 5 rupees. I told him I did not need the change. He wouldn't go for that. "My mother would not be happy if I didn't give change anna (elder brother in tamil)," he said. So he gave me change and after flashing us his biggest smile, he went off to sell more samosas on campus. He really broke our heart...so after lunch we kept our eyes open for him and sure enough he wandered back with his bucket of samosas. Nobody really bought anything. The day prior to meeting us, somebody had beaten him up and broken his clay pot of samosas. He said he had lost over 50 rupees ($1) worth of food. May not seem like a big amount to us but it was for him. So our group bought ALL his samosas this time around (it was only around $2 total) but instead of eating it we decided on a healthier option. We told him to go ahead and give samosas out to people on campus. He did a little double take and that then that beautiful smile came back on. He ran through the campus and within 20 minutes had an empty bucket! He came back to say thanks. We told him that we'd pray for his mother and then Ravi was off. I really hope he is back in school today. June 28 Deep and wideKaty and I have had very limited internet access but I thought I'd steal a few minutes from our trip to update a bit. Our trip has been nothing short of a whirlwind. Bangalore was wonderful for everybody. The group has been adjusting well to the food (which was a little bit of a concern at first) and they have been spectacular in making adjustments on the fly. We had the privilege of visiting a children's home in Bangalore and playing with kids who were really "street kids." That was probably one of my favorite evenings ever. Nothing can quite capture what we experiences that evening. I will be adding pictures when we get back to Bangalore, hopefully, that might help draw a picture for you. We also had the opportunity to lead the youth group at Bethel Baptist in Bangalore which was really another great way for our kids to interact with youngsters in Bangalore. They were well received and loved!
After our hectic Bangalore leg of the trip, we packed up to head to a BUSIER chapter. We took our 4 hour drive to Madanapalle on Monday. Our arrival was eagerly anticipated by the wonderful people here. The weather has been glorious and at times even a little chilly (makes one wonder where exactly they are). We have been treated like royalty here. We have been lavished with love. We took part in all the celebrations that were thrown in honor of our being here. Everywhere we go, our girls are offered flowers, kids mob us, and we are given the best food these people have to offer. It truly is humbling. We certainly arent deserving but we cherish the love. One of the more poignant moments happened our first day at Hope High School when we were given a tour. Not only were were taken through an elaborate welcome ceremony replete with dancers and flower throwers, as we walked into classrooms, students removed jewelery that they wore to offer to us, we had kids scrounge around in their old beat-up backpacks to find something of value to them....just so they could give it to us. We are humbled. Working with people like this is a joy. The Hope College kids really have no category to file these experiences.
I am really glad for what has been happening. I was hoping to provide snapshots of India...a fair representation of what this country is all about. We have had great food, wonderful conversations, adventures galore but most importantly we are establishing beautiful relationships. I am so very excited about that! I cant wait to tell you more in future updates. I apologize for the typos. The computer that I am on is pretty poor. I can hardly read what I am typing.. but I want you to know that we are thinking of you and that we are all well and loving our experience so far! Love you! |
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